What wants to come alive in you?
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Self-Centered Living™ is a way of being—an inside-out approach to life recognizing that we each are a unique focal point through which life happens. It's led by curiosity, not by what's broken. It's about setting a compelling vision for yourself and living into your expansive self.
Who would you be if the barriers were removed—the conditioning, the scripts others wrote for you, the expectations you've been carrying?
My work centers women of color. The philosophy itself belongs to anyone brave enough to question the status quo and move toward what's calling them.
This is self-design from the inside out. Not fixing what's broken. Not optimizing performance. Not another empowerment formula.
It's about noticing what's calling you. What longs to be seen and known.
Who This Is For
This work centers women of color who sense there's more.
Maybe you long for more softness, more lightness, or more thrill and aliveness. Maybe you're navigating a transition—stepping into new visibility, leaving what no longer fits, or feeling something stirring you can't quite name yet. The longing itself is the indicator. The curiosity. The quiet hunch or relentless inner voice asking: Is there more? Can I do this differently? What if I—?
Self-Centered Living is for women ready to be guided by their own knowing rather than external scripts. Women curious about what self-design means for them. Women wanting to live into their expansive self, not stay in a corner or live a slither of themselves.
This work is led by curiosity and longing—a desire to fill out your life and experience a range of emotions and aliveness. It requires courage to center yourself and to be seen. It requires presence. It's about setting a compelling vision for yourself—using imagination, dreaming, and play to chart new paths, moving beyond the survival strategies that have kept you safe but small.
THE SEVEN PRINCIPLES
Self-Centered Living™ is built on seven principles:
Community is an extension of ourselves. When cultivated wisely, it becomes a platform for co-creation and belonging.
We do not harm. Living our greatness in our expansive self does not require the subjugation of others.
We are expansive and dynamic.We change, grow, and evolve.
Life happens through us, not to us. We are active participants, not passive recipients.
Everything we need is already here. It becomes increasingly available through growing awareness and returning to your truth—free from what others or society impose on you.
We are supported. By the wisdom we carry, by ancestors, by grace (subtle and not always seen by the eyes), and by community.
We center ourselves for our wellness and to have authentic relationships with those we love and the world—with the capacity to meet ourselves and people where they are while recognizing our wholeness.
THE PODCAST
Listen to Self-Centered Living™ Podcast
Introductory Season (launched May 1, 2025): Conversations with women of color demonstrating self-authorship and authentic expression—being guided by their inherent knowing and charting new paths.
Season 2 in production—launching May 1, 2026.
No scripts. No performance. Just honest reflection on what happens when we pause long enough to hear our own voices and notice what wants to come alive.
https://open.spotify.com/show/0ThtOSah9Ind75lhx3WVg9
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/self-centered-living/id1812361151
THE WORK: COURSES & 1-1 PARTNERING
I work with women in groups and one-on-one—creating space for pause, reflection, and imagination. Space where you can hear your own voice. Where desires and longings that have been hidden can surface. Where you're witnessed as you explore what wants to come alive.
This isn't about adding more to your plate. It's about recognizing what's already here.
The Clarity Engine™ Hearing Beneath the Noise (Pilot - Mini-Course)
Whose voice is running the show—yours, or something else?
Internal noise shows up as self-doubt, fear, guilt, the critical voice that says you're not ready, not enough, or asking too much.
External noise comes from family expectations, professional environments that demand we shrink or code-switch, cultural tropes that confine and diminish, and systems that weren't built for us.
For women of color, these layers compound. The Clarity Engine™ helps you distinguish between the noise and your own truth—so you can hear yourself again.
1-1 Transformation Partnering
For women ready for deeper, individualized work in self-design and authorship. We work together over time, creating space for you to meet what's already here and longs to be known.
What this offers:
Personalized support tailored to your unique path and questions
Space for deep exploration without the constraints of group timing
Flexibility to move at your own pace through transitions and emergence
The approach:
We create a container for you to explore what wants to come alive, building capacity to be with all of yourself. This work is grounded in somatic practices, witnessing, and honoring your own knowing.
RippleSeed
A twelve-week transformative program for women of color (Currently on waitlist)
RippleSeed is a group program that uses intention and community to help you move towards a more fulfilled life. Change happens through the power of the collective energy when members hold (support) each other's intentions as a practice.